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Why Very Intelligent Men Fail with Women

by David DeAngelo

The Ten Reasons Why HIGHLY INTELLIGENT
Men Fail With Women... AND WHAT TO DO
ABOUT IT...

I've been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for several years now... and one "problem scenario" just keeps coming up OVER AND OVER... and OVER and OVER and OVER again...

...and it really amazes me.

I'm going to refer to it as "The Genius Failure Paradox".

"The Genius Failure Paradox" is the tendency for UNUSUALLY intelligent men to have very LOW levels of success with women and dating.

After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I'd like to share my thoughts about it with you.

I assume that if you've read this far, then you see probably yourself as smarter than the average guy.

You know that you're a little different than other guys.

You probably realized at a young age that you saw things differently, and thought differently than others in school...

And you've probably realized that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life...

Your smart mind gives you a particular type of advantage that can be very, very powerful in life: YOU'RE USUALLY RIGHT.

Smart people get used to being "right", because they usually ARE right.

And when you're RIGHT more often than others, you can get ahead in many situations.

But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can actually be WORSE than USELESS when it comes to a key area of life:

WOMEN AND DATING.

By the way, I did say WORSE than useless.

It can actually be like having a hammer when you need to tighten a bolt. If you use the tool you have for the job, you'll most likely make the situation WORSE.

Of course, it's hard for a smart guy to even IMAGINE a situation where his smart mind could HURT his chances for success...

But trust me, this is one of those situations.

So relax, open your smart mind, and let me share with you the ten reasons why smart guys fail with women... and what to do about it.

Reason #1: They're wrong, but they can't or won't see it or admit it.

I mentioned that smart guys are used to being RIGHT in most situations.

And what do most smart guys do when they come across a situation where they're WRONG?

They find a new situation... one that fits their strength. They know they'll be right next time, so they just walk away... knowing that it won't be long before they're right again.

(OR they let the "problem situation" destroy them... more on that later.)

Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is THERE'S NOWHERE TO RUN AND HIDE.

There's no quick "I'm right" around the next corner to make you feel better.

It only takes "failing" with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern... and realize that something isn't working.

Solution? Think harder.

A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good... so he just keeps thinking harder.

But when no success comes, it really starts to become mentally difficult.

Accepting that you're wrong is a VERY hard thing for a "smart guy".

Accepting that you're not only wrong, but you have NO CLUE WHERE TO EVEN START is even more difficult.

Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following logical conclusion:

I AM A SMART GUY, THEREFORE IF I CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND DATING, THEN THE PROBLEM MUST NOT BE SOLVABLE OR WORTH SOLVING.

Try that on for a self-defeating idea.

Reason #2: They're blind and arrogant.

In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone "dumber" than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an "obviously less intelligent person" before trying it.

Let me ask you a question:

If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I.Q., or a caveman who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of about 50... but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life?

It's an interesting question.

Now, hopefully you'd like to have the guide who isn't the smartest guy around... but who has escaped from many, many dangerous situations with deadly animals...

But now let me ask you:

If you'd like to learn how to be more successful with women and dating, would you take advice from a guy who isn't very intelligent, but who knows how to attract women?

There's something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn't either as smart or smarter than them.

Well, any SMART GUY can see the folly in this particular approach... once it's examined closely.

If you've been making this mistake, then you need to STOP IT. Stop being an arrogant bastard, and open your eyes.

Look around.

Learn from some "dumb" guys... and let them teach you how to get what you REALLY want.

Reason #3: Poor Social Skills.

It BLOWS MY MIND how many smart guys I meet that just don't GET IT when it comes to basic social skills.

It's as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for lower beings who need to play games... and not worth the time it would take to learn them.

In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don't even have "social skills" and "be a cool guy that people like" in their "MENTAL MODEL" of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating.

Social skills are just that... SKILLS.

They're not social INFORMATION.

They're not social THEORIES.

They're social SKILLS.

And you don't get them by THINKING about them. You get them by GETTING them.

Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans... and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.

Reason #4: They psych themselves out.

Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me...

They come up with all the reasons why everything WON'T WORK when it comes to women and dating.

They actually figure out why what they would like to do will probably fail...

They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes... and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions... which ultimately stop them from having success with women and dating.

THEY DON'T EVEN TRY.

Now, if you've thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right?

I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail?

It's sound logic, but HORRIBLE thinking when it comes to the REAL WORLD... and success with women.

Because smart guys don't UNDERSTAND women, and they don't UNDERSTAND what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad figures. They're wrong before they even start figuring!

Using your mind to come up with all the reasons why things won't work in this area of your life leads to ULTIMATE FAILURE.

You must learn to overcome this habit if you have it.

Reason #5: They seek only "informational solutions."

What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... or he needs to figure something out?

He looks for INFORMATION to help him solve the problem.

MORE INFORMATION is always the answer.

Information is the friend of a smart guy.

Got a strange virus on your computer? Just hop on the internet and search for how to eliminate it.

Don't know how to change the alternator on your car? No prob. Just buy the manual and turn to page 147.

Don't know the definition of a word? Open up your dictionary.

MORE INFORMATION solves the problem.

So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women?

They want MORE INFORMATION.

They think the answer lies in learning just ONE MORE TECHNIQUE... or one more magic concept.

Well what if there were a situation in life where the "get more information" strategy actually made things WORSE?

How would you even know that it was making things worse?

Now, I don't want to suggest that learning more about how to be successful with women is a bad thing. It's not.

But if you have a problem that is EMOTIONAL or PHYSICAL in nature, then reading five million theories on it probably isn't going to help you very much.

You need to get out in the real world and try some stuff!

You need to look at the REAL problem... the ROOT of the problem.

When it comes to women and dating, there's a very good chance that you have MORE than enough "information".

Smart guys often use "more information" to distract them from TAKING ACTION.

I've heard this referred to as "Creative Avoidance".

Nod silently if you've ever figured out a creative way to avoid facing something in your life.

Good, thank you.

Reason #6: They focus on logic instead of emotion.

NEWS JUST IN: Women don't feel ATTRACTION for men who make them THINK.

Women feel ATTRACTION for men who make them FEEL.

So what do most smart guys do when they first meet a woman?

EXACTLY!

They get into a LOGICAL CONVERSATION.

I'm shaking my head right now...

Smart men try to engage women in LOGICAL conversations and interactions because that's where THEY feel comfortable... not knowing that they're SHOOTING THEMSELVES IN THE FOOT by doing it!

Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before you will make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you by engaging her in logical conversation.

When you start a logical conversation with a woman you've just met, you are basically taking out a NEON SIGN that says "I don't get it when it comes to women" and putting it on your head.

Typical "logical" conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs... discussing politics, religion, weather... and anything that has to do with math, science, or INTELLIGENCE.

On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say "OK, so tell me something... Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys... but they all date sexy, selfish bad boys?" (and then make fun of any answer she gives) you're having an EMOTIONAL conversation.

If you don't know what I'm talking about, keep reading. You need more help than I thought.

Reason #7: They're not used to the challenge of the moment.

Smart people usually have time to THINK about things.

If you're taking a test, you can sit there and work out the answers.

If you have a math problem, you can work on it until you've figured it out.

If you're trying to fix something, you can keep working on it until it's fixed.

Smart guys are used to being able to take at least a LITTLE bit of time to prepare and show off their "good sides" in most situations.

Not so with women...

If you don't know what to do at every step along the way, you'll be shut down very quickly.

Women have an AMAZING "He doesn't get it" radar system.

Women have all kinds of subtle and ingenious tests that they throw at men to separate the "get its" from the "don't get its".

And if you don't get it, then you're going to fail one of these tests VERY quickly.

But the worst part is that you won't ever KNOW that you were being tested... OR that you failed.

Smart guys aren't used to dealing with complex EMOTIONAL and COMMUNICATION challenges in the moment... and especially the "women and dating" kind.

One of they keys to becoming more successful with women and dating is learning to handle all of the tests that women throw at you effortlessly.

But before you can learn how to deal with the tests, you must first learn how to communicate on an emotional level, how to demonstrate that you have fundamental social skills, and how to keep your cool in the moment.

Reason #8: They think that doing "nice" things is the "smart way."

OK, let me ask you a trick question:

If I told you that you were going to have a date with the supermodel of your choice, which of the following would you choose as a "smart" way of preparing:

1) Find out what her favorite type of flowers are, and show up with a dozen of them so she would be "wowed".

2) Learn about her favorite travel destination so you could discuss it with her.

3) Find out what her favorite type of food is so you could take her to dinner... and she could see that you cared enough to choose something that she enjoyed.

OK, time's up. Which did you choose?

Now, I already mentioned that this was a TRICK question.

The answer is NONE OF THE ABOVE.

But WHY?

These three options all seemed logical, right?

I mean, why WOULDN'T you want to show up with her favorite flowers?

Why WOULDN'T you want to talk about her favorite places to travel?

Why WOULDN'T you want to take her to eat her favorite foods so she enjoyed herself?

Go with me here...

Smart guys think that they're being CLEVER when they do things like buying a woman her favorite flowers... and bringing them to the FIRST DATE.

Right?

In their minds, they're thinking "I'm going to be the guy who is thinking ahead... and I'm going to show up with the flowers that I KNOW she loves... and she's going to see them and like me more because of it".

Makes sense... good math, right?

Well the one teensy-weensy mistake that these "smart" guys make is not realizing that it doesn't actually take a smart person to think like this!

In fact, ANY jackass can figure out how to kiss a woman's ass.

And guess what?

WOMEN KNOW THIS!

And guess what else?

EVERY WUSSBAG DOES THIS STUFF.

An intelligent guy, in his proud arrogance, will think he's being such the charmer by using this "thoughtful" approach...

...and the woman he is chasing will interpret it as just another Wussy who's trying to MANIPULATE her.

Ouch. Another blow to intelligence.

Reason #9: Always needing to be the expert.

Have you ever met a smart guy who always needed to be "right"?

Have you ever met someone who would actually argue with you about something they knew nothing about... and make a fool of themselves because they just couldn't shut their "smart mouths"?

Over the last few years helping guys improve their success with women, I see this one pattern over and over again...

Smart guys don't like to be "beginners" at ANYTHING.

They don't like the idea of screwing up... especially if others are watching.

They want to maintain this "smart guy" image of themselves... so they try to always be "The Expert" at whatever they do.

Instead of saying "Hey, you know what? I'm a beginner at this... how do I do it? What should I do first? What next?"... and instead of being totally OK with screwing up, making mistakes, and making a fool of themselves in front of others in order to LEARN...

...they won't risk embarrassment, failure, or others thinking that they're beginners... so they wind up ultimately FAILING.

MORE NEWS JUST IN: It's OK to be a beginner.

Reason #10: They can't deal with fear and other emotions.

A smart guy's STRENGTH is his MIND.

His WEAKNESS is often his EMOTIONS.

Smart guys are often IMMOBILIZED by FEAR.

Totally stopped.

FROZEN.

And since many smart guys aren't comfortable dealing with things they're not good at, they just repress or RUN away from fear.

Many men would rather DIE in lonely isolation than admit that they don't know how to deal with their emotions... or, GOD FORBID, ask for help!

Hey, I went for YEARS like this.

I know what it's like.

But the reality is that any guy can learn to handle and even MASTER his emotions (even fear)... if he just takes the time and effort to learn HOW to do it.

If this is you, then do yourself a big favor... take the time. Take the effort.

Don't worry about what anyone else thinks of you... it doesn't matter.

What matters is you doing the things that YOU need to do FOR YOU.

...I think the reason why I'm so fascinated with "The Genius Failure Paradox" is because I have had to struggle with all of these issues for a lot of years of my life.

Now, I'm not saying that I'm the smartest guy on the planet...

But I don't think mamma raised no fool.

And it always bothered the hell out of me that even though I was so good at figuring things out, I couldn't figure WOMEN out.

Something tells me that you know what I'm talking about.

Well, after beating my head against the wall for a few years... trying all kinds of crazy "logical" stuff... I finally got the "bright" idea to start studying guys who were "naturally" good with women.

Of course, I found out that you could be both NOT SMART, and VERY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN at the same time.

I also learned that you can be SMART and VERY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN too.

By carefully studying what the "naturals" did with women... and learning how they "thought" about the topic, I began to realize that success with women wasn't entirely LOGICAL.

Much of what I learned was very tough for me to accept... because my logical brain just didn't want to buy into it.

One thing I saw was guys pushing women away from them... and having the women then chase them in response.

Made no sense at all.

I saw guys tease beautiful women and make jokes about them to their faces... and then watched those women become "little girls" in response... unable to maintain their composure, and therefore unable to maintain their manipulative power...

It took me quite a long time, but I continued to learn, test, and refine what I was learning until I personally figured out how to approach women in any situation... get any woman's number I wanted anytime I wanted... date any type of woman I wanted...

...and most importantly, GET RID of that "empty" feeling that I carried around my whole life because I didn't know how to attract women.

And once I got this area of my own life together, I decided to help other guys get this area of THEIR lives together.

Wat am i feeling right now? DOWN.. y? Monday blues babe.. Sigh.. Many things happened today.. Firstly me being mad at someone. Really sorry bout that n NO its not your fault.. Didn't know u had so much in your mind.. Me should have understood that.. Abt wat happened, its ok k.. Not your fault n i should have done it myself instead of asking you to go in the rain. Sorry ya.. Totally sorry...

And to add to the stupid Monday blues, i had that STUPID IDIOTIC ZOMBIE faci today for problem solving.. BITCH!! Purposely checked my com to c if i was using MSN!! I WASN'T OK!!! DOWNGRADE!! Lame Bitch.. N the whole class came to a conclusion that:

What We Know: Everyone Hates Her

What We don't Know: Why She's Like That

What We CONCLUDE: She's a lonely bugger who broke off her engagement over MSN thus banning all of us form using it!! hahaha (DOWNGRADE-that's wat she keeps saying!!)

Lame... But on the plus side of today, I had fun after skool.. hehe.. Thanks...

On the bad note of tonight, i had DIFFICULTY sending in my RJ!!! LAMEEE!!! Luckily i could do it just in time before i go home.. Seesh.. Didn't feel too well just now suddenly b4 i went home.. That blood thingy again.. sigh.. Thanks though tht i got hold of a cab...

*iwishitwillallgoawayforyoursake*

...UBIN TRIPZ...

Wow!! Oh gosh.. i'm lyke totally shagged (tapi tak nak tido eh.. pandai la tu..)

Anyway guezz wat? i went Cyclin @ ubin!!! on 22nd March 2009!!! whee.. Supposed to be a BK outing but so many can't make it n some didn't reply.. sigh... Anyway from the original BK who went to Ubin together, today (or is tht yesterday??) only 2 turned up.. Tht is me n Apiz!!!

Only 4 of us were there.. Tht is me, Apiz, Farhana n also a new addition.. Salimin... (later then talk abt him okie...

Anyway, had loads of fun ah.. Though a lil cock up this mornin n night, but in the end all went ok... Covered more area compared to the previous Ubin tripz... YeoWcH!!! My legs r killing me

... hahaha... :p Anyway guys... We'll hold another cyclin event soon but plz.. Make sure u guys can make it orightz!!!

Oh ya abt Salimin (Min)? He's just a long time friend whom we've not met for lyke 5 years i think?? hahaha.. Thkz to Hir la eh tht we're friendz again... Funny guy n attached.. sooo.. SHOO!!! hahaha (joking je!!!) N a new nick to him courtesy of Haffiz.. Semangat Bitch.... hahahaha... ye la tu semangat... =p

k k.. the pix r in me facebook ya... so do find if u want them...

Hmm... Blogging again? didn't have the time or energy to blog these few days.. Been feelin top of the world but on some days just sick out of my mind..

Oh ya... Please to u guys out there, u should know by now tht between me n fiq is over. No questions to be asked ok.. Hope u guys respect my decision...

To my other friends out there, some things r jus not meant to be.. No matter how compatible some people may be, its simply just too bad if they can't be a couple in the end... Some of it may be a lil too complicated n frustrating to understand but guys, a promise is a promise.... There r some things u have to hold on to even if when all of a sudden wat u may see or find may change your thoughts....

Know me not making sense.. But well, tht's all i gotta say... To some, i wish u all the happiness tht u may get even if 'm not the one to give it.. N to the rest, TO HELL WITH YOU!!! OPPZZZ!!!! hahaha....

Wonder wat's the plan for tonight... Fiz n Dynn, get back to me ya cause me totally simply bored out of my mind......

 

* to sid: Happy 24th BIRTHDAY!!! Finally you're older than me AGAIN!! WHEEEEE*

Juz came back home from an extremely long day with my relatives... Overnight with them yesterday @ Pasir Ris BBQ pit near our PA campsite... Sure really was fun.. I'm kinda dark now cause this mornin went to Changi Beach with them all n me mandi laut... My whole face is red!!! seriously red... Even for a malay if i tell u i red, can u imagine how bad it is???? hahahaha.....

Before meeting them though i had a day out (finally!!) with my work place collegues... Went to West Coast to lepak.. Non stop laughter with them.. kinda plannin with them now fer overnight during christmas... If BK's has nothing planned then me confirm will join them lor.. See how ya...

Anyway the day b4 tht, Hir was admitted to hosp due to appendix... I really hope u get well soon... So far only me, Farhana n Fifi managed to visit him as the rest were busy... Hmmm... Fifi, are u thinking wat i'm thinking???? OUCH!!!! wakakakakaka.... Wonder if tht someone got injected again!!!! hahahaha..... Anyway fi, hope u like tht shirt i picked out.. totaly suits u!!! seriously nice k k.... N Hir, see u back in ten days or more ya...

Being frank here... I'm bored to the max.. Have a day mc to waste today due to my dry and painful plus sore throat.. crappy...

Not in a good mood thinkin of stuff i shouldn't be thinkin of in the first place.. Yup i know i'm mean to do wat i did to him.. but jus maybe its for the better (though it does not seem to be like it fer now) I don't know wat's goin to happen in the upcoming days but wat the heck me jus gonna live each day as it comes... to tht someone, maybe i'll leave.. Maybe i'll stay n get hurt....

My mind? - Blank

Wat i'm thinking about now? -I'm Clueless

Gotten a new Job @ CPF building... Mind u its temp fer now... The peeps here r ok ok (cept one 'BB') hahaha...

Life has been ok..(i'm practically lyin through my teeth) Job's ok... (well at least tht is true) Family ok.. (issit?) Band??? i have totally no idea... Oms is fine i guess.. Learnin another instrumt fer MWS currently n me get to bring it back to prac... (erm though i didn't.. sorry.. it is late whenever i reach home ok!!) Hmmm... Thinkin of two other bands to join.. one is @ BB cc... West winds right?? heard its good.. wanna challenge myself.. plus another is the Thomson CC Jazz band... Now they've moved with SWS.. yup me thinkin bout tht too.. jus finding ways to improve my playing...

Kinda have a lot of things me thinkin about now.. I'll blog abt it in my private bloggy okie... Gtg... bye...

Pix fer Library Gig is up... Edited some... Sorry Fiz n Fiq tht me didn't reply your calls n sms... Was dead asleep today not feelin too well...

Well, HRO outing with the close youth was a success though there were a few bumps here n there... Thanks to Fiq for him 'tompanging' people on his bike, Is for the last min takin his bike with Farhana, Q for his cute car which practically turned into a van for us n lastly to Rohaizad fer the many last min changes of transport (my fault actually) n in the end bringing us in his car... Not forgetting to the total of 16 people who turned up!!! hahaha.. really hope u guys enjoyed ureselves a lot... Ya guess wat? only Fiz managed to touch my cat.. hahaha.. kesian fifi for the cat spat at him.. wakakaka... well only me can touch my darlin ma!!! hahaha....

Crap farhana, next time me goin to kidnap ure kitty eh... hahaha.. cute macam me seriously considering to sumbat it in my bag.. hahaha..... anyway guess wat.. of the pix above me jus realised tht me forgot to take solo pix with Farhana, Is n his sis!! hahaha... Well, SC HRO is comin up first tomorro ayg's work group is goin out n me requested to follow them.. hmmmmm... Ya guess me goin fer SC hro.. OK EEqa!!! hahaha.. can't wait to see u guys...

Well, jus out of randomness with nothin to do fer now.. lappy dead.. boring.. Need help from Fiq's Sis's friend to help me repair it.. sigh... Bad mood don know why..

Had a fun begining of day yesterday but a sucky endin.. Thanks Mai fer meetin up.. dah lama tak jumpe.. haha.. know wat!! jus now when was walkin round at West mall i saw this 30++ lady wearing the shirt u wanna get from Fox!! hahaha... thank god yesterday i didn't straightaway change to the shirt i bought huh...

MEt Fi n Dan down Fi's block.. ya thanks though Dan fer being 'EARLY' grrrr.. banyaknyer cepat!! Then off to Amk Hub where Fi did his 'exercise' hahaha... Cute... After tht we sent Mai to her 45 bus stop.. Kinda far n we were caught in the rain but fun ah!!! hehehehe... miss the bus n had to wait so long fer the next one.... (u mean it really was only 20 mins!!!)

Had to find atm sonce wanna take cab down to MWS.. Had to wait till 8 to pass the peak hour stage.. By then some people were callin non stop askin us where were we... I'm really sorry we were late..
but to that particular someone who is readin this, let me say somethin to you :
All these while when i came down all the way to your area i've never complained... Even when u were mostly late i just kept my mouth shut cause to me its normal... But what u said was unfair to me yesterday. i didn't deserve the tongue lashing u gave me..I'm seldom late ok. Never before have i been late when meetin the rest of u guys.. Not till an hour or more... Its unfair for u to do this to me n sorry to say but yup it hurts. Its not nice wat u did n sms to dan too. Sorry if i had to type this out here ah.. But rest assured ure name i won't say. But please ah next time weigh your words properly before u say them. Sarcasticness can sometimes hurt others a lot.

Anyway me a bit slow hor... To All my friendz n families out there, Farin di sini ingin memohon maaf atas segala kesalahan yang pernah Farin lakukan... Sorry ye...

TEACHER: Maria, go to the map and find North America ...
MARIA: Here it is.
TEACHER: Correct. Now class, who discovered America ?
CLASS: Maria.
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TEACHER: John, why are you doing your math multiplication on the floor?
JOHN: You told me to do it without using tables.
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TEACHER: Glenn, how do you spell 'crocodile?'
GLENN: K-R-O-K-O-D-I-A-L'
TEACHER: No, that's wrong
GLENN: Maybe it is wrong, but you asked me how I spell it.
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TEACHER: Donald, what is the chemical formula for water?
DONALD: H I J K L M N O.
TEACHER: What are you talking about?
DONALD: Yesterday you said it's H to O.
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TEACHER: Winnie, name one important thing we have today that we didn't have ten years ago.
WINNIE: Me!
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TEACHER: Glen, why do you always get so dirty?
GLEN: Well, I'm a lot closer to the ground than you are.
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TEACHER: Millie, give me a sentence starting with 'I.'
MILLIE: I is..
TEACHER: No, Millie..... Always say, 'I am.'
MILLIE: All right..... 'I am the ninth letter of the alphabet.'
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TEACHER: George Washington not only chopped down his father's cherry tree, but also admitted it. Now, Louie, do you know why his father didn't punish him?
LOUIS: Because George still had the axe in his hand. ______________________________________
TEACHER: Now, Simon, tell me frankly, do you say prayers before eating?
SIMON: No sir, I don't have to, my Mom is a good cook.
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TEACHER: Clyde , your composition on 'My Dog' is exactly the same as your brother's. Did you copy his?
CLYDE : No, sir. It's the same dog.
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TEACHER: Harold, what do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?
HAROLD: A teacher
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PASS IT AROUND AND MAKE SOMEONE LAUGH! LAUGHTER IS THE SOUL'S MEDICINE!!

Well here r the neoprintz.. did some editing from the actual pix.. hahaha duh!!! me forever editing pix nothin better to do...found a cool new webbie fer editing.. wheee... anyway me at library now..

Know wat? the group has lost its name. Wat's happenin? Why the sudden feeling of boredom? Really hope for the planned challet soon. Maybe tht will bring back the namesake to us.

Had cycling jus to put the presure on me leg. sorry ya guys me couldn't catch up.. still feelin the strain n lasted till this morn. sigh.. luckily my med still have. I'm still feeling tht things might never be the same again. It's jus a feeling i'm keeping to myself for a while. Looks can be deceiving. As some of u know i tend to smile n make others laugh no matter how much i'm dying inside.

I seriously can't think of words to say or write.. So i'll jus write out a poem i've jus composed on level 30 (u know i know)

Jus spent a day with Fiq after so many months of not doing so. jus the two of us. Sweet day. Thanks fer the new cap. Hope u like ure adidas shirt n belt. I love the neo print (though can't post now) again thkz fer everything.

Day was great. Met at 12 but had to go P.A.G.E.. prac was fun.. did actually sound nice with sax.. (no hard feelings azura ya.. u should have come leh...) N sorry mai for the hurried notation.. will do it neatly fer ya ok!!! Few mor pracs b4 abg nizam's wedding.. can't wait.. getting excited fer the performance..

Can't wait to get me blue baju kurung.. (ARGH BLUE AGAIN!!!) hehe.. wat to do i love blue... n course me grey too... can't wait..
Chatted with Abg Rusdi.. sigh.. been so long ya.. thanks ya for the advice me sure will remember them n make use of them.. againg thanks fer being there for me ...

Plans for tomorro? i don't know... need to exercise me leg... i feel like an invalid the more i don get up n do something.. sigh... do u think i can start sports like how i used to?? hmmm... wanna get back my heelys.. dumb i know n so very the zaman dulu but i missed it.. Plus wanna hope tht once me leg better i can join fir playing badminton!!! thanks fer the offer ya.. will confirm join one day!!! i refuse to be stuck this way jus because of my freaking leg.. to get well u gotta try instead of lying down all day...

Happy 3 years 9 mths anniversary dear.. Hope u like the bracelet i got ya!!! Love u loads n loads n loads....